Fired Up on Betty White: La Mesan Would Swallow Swords to Lure Star

But agent throws water on Facebook drive seeking to woo 91-year-old star to Christmas in the Village.

Updated at 11:25 p.m. Feb. 5, 2013

Lucy Cabezas is a self-described “goofball” from the Jackson Heights and Queens area of New York City with two overriding passions: La Mesa and Betty White.

So why not combine them?

Cabezas, a La Mesa resident since July 2007, on Saturday launched a Facebook page to drum up support for her dream of bringing the 91-year-old actress and celebrity to Christmas in the Village, the annual downtown festival.

But Facebook drives are a dime a dozen.

How serious is Cabezas about wooing White?

“If this takes me eating fire or sword-swallowing, let me know the time and place and I will do it,” she said Tuesday in a phone interview.

It just so happens that Cabezas, 30, has performed as a fire-eater and sword-swallower in a multifaceted career that she says includes burlesque, true-crime writing and playing in a band.

Her Facebook page—La Mesa Wants Betty White—had only 20 Likes as of Tuesday, but Cabezas has been talking it up at haunts like Cosmos Coffee Café in The Village and elsewhere.

 “I know that [follower] numbers are a huge deal,” she said. “I would love to see people in the hundreds who also feel that Betty White is awesome and should visit La Mesa in all its cute Christmassy glory.

“Betty White would just love it here. There’s no rhyme or reason to [the Facebook drive]. It just came to me.”

Actually, she has good reason for liking the Emmy Award-winning actress—a radio and comedy veteran best known for TV stints on The Mary Tyler Moore, The Golden Girls, game shows and Hot in Cleveland.

Betty White’s agent may have let the air out of Cabezas’ tires, however, responding to a Patch inquiry late Tuesday night.

“Betty’s schedule does not permit with two network primetime shows in production,” wrote White’s agent, Beverly Hills-based Jeff Witjas of the Agency for the Performing Arts.

Before word came from Witjas, Cabezas said in her New York twang: “I grew up watching Betty White.”

When Cabezas had some “down times,” she would go on YouTube, search for White, and “it would make me feel better.”

And when she shared the idea with friends, “not one person has said anything negative,” she said. “I want everyone in California to back this up.”

White, a Brentwood resident, would love the friendly vibe of La Mesa, Cabezas said, and wants her to serve as grand marshal at the two-day Christmas in the Village in mid-December—the event organized by the La Mesa Village Merchants Association.

In a blog post on La Mesa Today, Cabezas wrote:

With the help and encouragement of a lot of people, I decided to create a Facebook page asking Betty White to come and visit us. My little fantasy? Betty White as the Grand Marshal of Christmas in the Village (even if there is no such title, one should be created).

Yeah I know some guy created a Facebook to get NBC to get Betty White to host SNL, I figured I would at least try. Even if we don’t get her to come down here, how awesome would it be if everyone in our community agreed on this. I spoke to local merchants and citizens alike and they all say to me: “LUCY! YOU HAVE TO GET US BETTY WHITE!”

Although her personal Facebook page features her stage persona of “Evil Lucy,” Cabezas has a practical streak.

She recently earned an associate’s degree in information technology from the online University of Phoenix and works in telemarketing for Geary LSF in downtown San Diego. She’s worked in web design and has done a comic strip.

She’s also engaged to be married—in April 2014. And her fiancé “supports me fully” in her Betty White quest, she says.

Cabezas rents an apartment on La Mesa Boulevard near Mario’s de La Mesa restaurant and the University Avenue intersection.

In her Facebook page—founded Feb. 2—Cabezas says:

One day I was talking to some friends of mine and I don’t know how we ended up on this topic, but the idea of Betty White coming to La Mesa was beginning. I talked to random people about how they would feel if Betty White visited us, and all their answers were the same: “F--- YEAH! I'd love to meet Betty White.”

I want to take it a step further, I want to see if I can talk to La Mesa officials and ask them if we can make Betty White the Grand Marshall of our annual Christmas in the Village. … Please help me try to get this legend here to La Mesa!

Cabezas confesses to not having a budget to bring White here, “but I should like to think that I can work hard and possibly pay for a hotel room, get a sponsor, perform on streets.”

How else might she promote the drive?

 “I will be going around the neighborhood talking my head off,” she said via email Tuesday afternoon. “Other than that, I might see if I can afford  a [website] domain name for the cause.”

Born in Santa Fe De Bogota, Colombia, Cabezas came to New York in 1984 about age 2 and says she gained U.S. citizenship in 1996. 

Ken Stone February 06, 2013 at 10:51 AM
Meanwhile, Bill Clinton has endorsed Betty White for president in 2016: http://redalertpolitics.com/2013/02/05/betty-white-in-the-white-house/
F. Dunn February 06, 2013 at 03:16 PM
Betty White's phony shtick is way too stale among us Boomer women, She also is a bee-yotch to her step kids. Bottom line: Don't expect a lot of support from my demographic cohorts.
F. Dunn February 06, 2013 at 03:57 PM
Things, I do. I know she has to make a living. She's really not a horndog, though,
Kevin George February 06, 2013 at 05:07 PM
That's not what she says. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jo7HFAwE0rA
F. Dunn February 06, 2013 at 06:56 PM
No one tells you what actually happens after menopause. Which is that you don't want sex at all. And that's not a good thing.
Kevin George February 06, 2013 at 07:15 PM
As we all know F, if it's true for you it's true for everyone.
F. Dunn February 06, 2013 at 07:55 PM
Kevin, I admit I don't know if it's true for all of us. As for me...I just wish someone had told me.
Lucy Cabezas February 06, 2013 at 10:23 PM
I know that the tires seem deflated right now but I am not losing sight on this. I think that it's a great idea and has made a lot of people smile about it. Even if we don't get Betty White in La Mesa the best thing that has happened from all this is the amount of people who have been smiling. This is for people who are interested in the campaign, if you want to help in anyway please feel free to contact me on the Official La Mesa Wants Betty White facebook page: http://www.facebook.com/LaMesaWantsBettyWhite
No Bad Government February 08, 2013 at 03:58 PM
Didn't El Cajon already try this? Oh yeah, it would up with Jillian Cox absconding with employers funds to pay for the stardom. How did that work out? Really, are we all that star struck that we need famous people to be in a local parade? Don't we have famous people who actually live or came from La Mesa who might be more appropriate.Parades are mainly for children. What does Betty White do for them?
Batman February 08, 2013 at 04:24 PM
The "happy homemaker" can give them cooking lessons.
F. Dunn February 08, 2013 at 04:37 PM
Welp, Lucy, don't expect to get any help from me and my female frenz in La Mesa whose mothers are Betty's age. She's just a freaking actress and she'll do the diva thing with you. If you want a really good role model for our daughters, how about Ellen Ochoa, the astronaut? She grew up in La Mesa.
Lucy Cabezas February 08, 2013 at 08:45 PM
To: F. Dunn: It's a good thing that I do not need your support or that of your brood. I find it very disheartening that the idea of making other people happy is just not your thing. and to No Bad Government- you just like F. Dunn missed the whole point of this campaign. Yes- we would love if Betty White would come to La Mesa but we're not stupid enough to believe that this can come to fruition. This is something that is making a lot of the people involved happy and if you can't see that then I actually feel sorry. Spare me your venom, the idea of others being happy and being part of a fun little community is the heart of it all. Good thing that others are not so bitter and jaded. I am the Queen of Cynicism but I will be damned if I let some people bring me and my friends down. Learn manners- if you can't say something nice just shut up and you can quote me on that
F. Dunn February 08, 2013 at 09:28 PM
Lucy, La Mesa really isn't that small a town. You have people here who worked in Hollywood. I will just shut up, okay? I wish you the best. I hope you don't get hurt.
Lucy Cabezas February 08, 2013 at 09:34 PM
To quote Elvira (one of my idols): "I'm like wax fruit, I don't bruise that easy" I know of a lot of famous people come from La Mesa and why Betty White? here, I'll tell you: She has made me happy for many years, I went through a horrible divorce and found comfort in her old and new shows. In my mind she's a sweet woman who has given so much to the entertainment community as well as to animals. You don't support us? that's all well and good as you are entitled to your own opinion
F. Dunn February 08, 2013 at 09:44 PM
I went through a horrible divorce, too. I hope you don't get hurt anymore. We don't have to talk about this anymore. My best wishes to you.
Lucy Cabezas February 08, 2013 at 09:52 PM
Thank You
No Bad Government February 09, 2013 at 12:32 AM
My bad. Betty White is a very nice lady. Maybe you can go to Hollywood for a taping of Hot in Cleveland and meet her in person. Is that kinder? Better chance of seeing her that way.
Lucy Cabezas February 10, 2013 at 03:16 PM
to: No Bad Government- while I appreciate your advice of going to a taping (which I would love to do) it's just not for me anymore, it's for everyone else who likes to smile about it because of the whole Facebook page. I realize that my goal is a tad beyond reach but it makes me smile so it's worth it.


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